Douglas
Elliott, lawyer for the MCC Toronto marriage cases recieves a hug from Tammy,
a grateful fan from the same congregation.
Hannah Barnett-Kemper
discusses the challenges of public appearances with Joe Varnell, prior to receiving
a citation from Canadians
For Equal Marriage for her family's contribution to the equal marriage movement.
Robbie holds a proclamation high.
Enza
"Supermodel" Anderson has regularly appeared at events and rallies
in support of equal marriage. She was a Valentine for equality this year at Toronto
City Hall.
George
Hislop was recognized by Canadians For Equal Marriage for his long-time service
to the community.
Anne
and Elaine Vautour were at the City Hall celebration and the marriage of George
Olds and Ian Taylor.
Ian
Taylor and George Olds celebrating their marriage with Ontario New Democratic
Party Member of Provincial Parliament Marilyn
Churley.
Douglass
and Stephen Drozdow-St. Christian during their marriage, broadcast live on
CBC's national network on Feb. 15, 2004. "It was an amazing, empowering moment!"
Douglass told us the next day.
We
posted a letter from Douglass
on this website in 2002, after the Canadian government announced plans to appeal
the first court victory for marriage in Ontario. The professor has been an active
supporter and contributer to the movement. Congratulations and appreciation to
the couple.
Rev.
Dr. Cheri DiNovo Minister at the Emmanuel-Howard Park United Church
Canada's
largest Protestant Church, the United Church of Canada, supported equal
marriage during Parliament's
marriage hearings last year. The United Church has had many champions
of equality. Rev. Dr. Cheri DiNovo is one of the leaders working to end
marriage discrimination within her faith community and beyond. Rev. DiNovo
provided an affidavit
in support of a successful quash of an appeal of the Ontario marriage
decision at the Supreme Court of Canada.
We chatted with the Reverend, at the Feb. 14 Toronto City Hall celebration.
Although we had much to be grateful for, Rev. DiNovo spoke of more work
ahead:
"It's
one thing that the general council, the leadership of the church, supports
it [marriage for same-sex couples], it another thing that people in the
rank and file and in the pews in small towns support it ... I think what
general council really has needs to do is put some weight behind that.
By setting some money [aside] not just paper that goes into the bottom
the bottom drawer of clergy's desks, but to actually send people out to
the various conferences and presbyteries across Canada to raise issues
in a safe way."
Rev.
DiNovo believes equal marriage will test whether faith communities have
learned to over-come past mistakes.
"Leadership
has to lead. Leadership has to come forward and do what's right and do
what God calls them to do. Does that mean that they will lose a third
of their membership? Most probably it will. They have to live with that
consequence.
I draw an analogy between this and say the Church during Nazi Germany.
A very small portion of
the Church stood by the Jews and against the Nazi government. It's
pathetic when you look at it historically. What would we say is Church
now? Would we stand with the Jews in a situation like that? Here's
our social justice situation right now, right here. Are we going to stand
up and do what's right or are we not? And yes it will cost you. Be prepared
to pay the cost."
Brendan
Fay
Civil Marriage Trail 2004:
Brendan
Fay spoke passionately at Toronto City Hall when he introduced a New York
group he cofounded with Jesus Lebron, called the Civil Marriage Trail.
His speech inspired someone to begin singing the Canadian national anthem,
with many of our American visitors wiping tears from their eyes:
"Let
freedom reign ... We are called the Civil
Marriage Trail Project in memory of others who have crossed the border
for freedom, equality and justice. We're remembering brothers and sisters
from another era who crossed the border in an underground railroad trail. We're here in memory of other brothers
and sisters who crossed the border during the Vietnam era. We're here
like many others who have crossed your border for the beauty and sweet
taste of equality and justice. Thank you for that taste. After we crossed
your border, by train, by car, and by Greyhound bus, I have to tell you
of the beautiful sight of the maple leaf flag. Your maple leaf is, for
same-sex couples, what the statue of liberty and the liberty bell has
meant for our ancestors. When we see that maple leaf we see equality for
all. We see hope for all."
Bill
Graham Minister of Foreign Affairs, Canada
Fittingly,
Canada's Minister of Foreign Affairs was at Toronto City Hall to witness
the appreciation of American gay and lesbian couples. The Cabinet Minister
talked of what we were celebrating, without ever mentioning the word "marriage":
"Yesterday
I had the great privilege of standing beside Secretary Powell at the State
Department in the United States, in Washington, and then I come home and
hear a group of Americans singing the praises of Canada. As your foreign
minister, when I travel around the world, the praise we get from everyone
around the world, even those who may disagree with some of our policies,
who might even disagree with what we're celebrating here today, recognize
that what we represent in this country is tolerance, respect for one another,
civility, a way in which people can affirm themselves. This ceremony today
is a celebration about that. It's a celebration of life, a celebration
of what we try to do as a community and what we try to do as a nation,
to make it a place where all fit, all can affirm themselves in the wholeness
of their being ... we've heard the Prime Minister say that the legislation
will be introduced into Parliament, as soon as that [Supreme Court of
Canada] reference enables the law and judges and the political people
to consider exactly what we are doing and how we are doing it. The government
is committed to doing this because, in my view, it's a commitment that
relates to what we're about as a country. A country that respects one
another, that's tolerant of one another's diverse lifestyle and says that
everybody has a right to freedom, dignity, and in this case, love."
George
Olds and Ian Taylor were married at the Metropolitan Community Church
of Toronto on Feb. 14. They are long-time human rights advocates and have
provided advice and support
to us since Dec. 2000. The following are comments made by Rev. Fisher
during the marriage between George and Ian:
"You
two have led the way. You have fought for so many so that we would have
this right, as total and complete citizens of this country, that we would
have the freedom to marry... I know you have wanted this moment passionately,
and you have fought for it. There are no two more deserving men on the
face of this earth to be getting married at this moment and time."
Ian
Taylor
Newlywed, Feb 14,
2004
Comments
made by newlywed Ian Taylor after being introduced to guests at the service
by Rev. Fisher:
"A
year ago we went to city hall to protest and to seek the right
to be married. They gave it to us. We didn't go back this year to
get a license. We don't need a marriage license from a government
agency. We were married under the reading of the banns. We were
licensed under the authority of this church. We were married under
the flag of this church. We would have been married under the Canadian
flag if they'd ever done anything to help us. We were married under
this church's flag because this church home is very important to
us. This church has been a family to us for the 19 years we've been
together. Our combined membership and service in this church is
44 years ..."
The marriage of George Olds and Ian Taylor. Celebrant: Rev.
Diane Fisher, Boston Mass. Witnesses: Rev. Dr. Brent Hawkes, Toronto,
and Donald Gordon Taylor, Manitoba.
"...
as we grow up we have to learn the concept of tithing, and it's not just
a religious belief. We are required to give 10% of what we have back to
the community and it doesn't have to be a church. We can tithe to community
groups and agencies. We can help in the health care of our brothers and
sisters who need this ...When George and I first got involved in the movement
of social activism, and working at getting our word in the news media
George used to say that every time we make news, we make history. This
place has been a place of history."